My sympathy goes to …

I feel like until after the fast-forward to the present, I can’t emphasize with Jing-mei because she is kind of an antihero. Her mother’s extreme pressure isn’t really understandable either, although I do feel bad for her from time to time because Jing-mei is treating her poorly.
However, this can partially blamed on Jing-mei being a child

The American Dream

“life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness”
government of the people, by the people and for the people
Declaration of Independence

always new obstacles to overcome and borderlines to cross “pursuit”
“Everyone should have the opportunity to make the best of their life.”
“Success is something that everyone can achieve, if they try hard enough.”
wealth = success & happiness

Relation to “Two Kinds”

“My mother believed you could be anything you wanted to be in America. You could open a restaurant. You could work for the government and get good retirement. You could buy a house with almost no money down. You could become rich. You could become instantly famous.”
- Amy Tan, “Two Kinds” (ln. 1-4)